I think that the whole "incel" problem is overblown. I mean, you can literally call a hooker or escort if you really need to get your rocks off as a man.

Most incels don't want meaningless sex though. They know they can pay an Asian hooker 5 dorra for a sucky sucky long time lovin. But by and large they don't. Why is that? Because sex is just the stand in for a meaningful relationship. Incels don't want a quick fuck, they just want to be loved

Normally I'm not one for song lyric posting, but this one's appropriate imo

Because we have been told that if you've been assured // there's a way to live the values your forefathers gave you // Prepare to be told, "That shit's gay dude"

is there a girl at this college who hasn't been raped?

a hand and a napkin when I'm looking for sex // but that's no one to talk to when feeling depressed

The whole song is a banger and it came out before "incel" was a huge thing, but it captures a lot of the driving feelings behind inceldom.

Now you can argue that they're setting their sights too high, only wanting Stacy when Becky is more than willing to date them, but that's not true of everyone