LOL I noticed the same thing with various tv shows and comedies talking about butt plugs. Like I always knew it as some gay thing so yeah it's a funny topic for jokes, but they were acting like it's a toy everybody uses. (i.e. normalizing it) I'd literally never heard of a straight person using butt plugs before that.
It all seems so tedious that one would have to prepare teh anus for penetration so far, I assume, in advance. I mean, you can't just plunge it in. Can you?
Now, I am guessing here, but doesn't the rectum have to be fully evacuated and then an instrument used and worn for some time to dilate it for the penis? And then there must be lubricants.
Is this so?
Because otherwise you will hurt the other person and get poop on your dick.
Surely these are signs that it is not an activity for which the pooper is designer.
And in any case, as far as male to male goes, it is not psychologically healthy for a man to submit to another man.
In history, a woman may submit and survive and even thrive. But a man who submits will die, now or later in chains.
The primary relationship between men is not one of dominance and submission but one of co-operation, which is something that, in their place, women know very little about.
I don't know about men butts, but in my experience with women's prep isn't always necessary nor is long dilation. Even for women with little experience in that area.
You of course should do both, but it can be a spontaneous thing without it going horribly wrong most of the time. Even only using her own natural lubrication if you are getting that engine running good.
But, men and women are not the same, so the same metrics and actions cannot just be moved over from one to the other even with their butts.
LOL I noticed the same thing with various tv shows and comedies talking about butt plugs. Like I always knew it as some gay thing so yeah it's a funny topic for jokes, but they were acting like it's a toy everybody uses. (i.e. normalizing it) I'd literally never heard of a straight person using butt plugs before that.
It all seems so tedious that one would have to prepare teh anus for penetration so far, I assume, in advance. I mean, you can't just plunge it in. Can you?
Now, I am guessing here, but doesn't the rectum have to be fully evacuated and then an instrument used and worn for some time to dilate it for the penis? And then there must be lubricants.
Is this so?
Because otherwise you will hurt the other person and get poop on your dick.
Surely these are signs that it is not an activity for which the pooper is designer.
And in any case, as far as male to male goes, it is not psychologically healthy for a man to submit to another man.
In history, a woman may submit and survive and even thrive. But a man who submits will die, now or later in chains.
The primary relationship between men is not one of dominance and submission but one of co-operation, which is something that, in their place, women know very little about.
I don't know about men butts, but in my experience with women's prep isn't always necessary nor is long dilation. Even for women with little experience in that area.
You of course should do both, but it can be a spontaneous thing without it going horribly wrong most of the time. Even only using her own natural lubrication if you are getting that engine running good.
But, men and women are not the same, so the same metrics and actions cannot just be moved over from one to the other even with their butts.