Apparently, not cutting yourself for a few years when you are in your thirties is some sort of huge accomplishment.

It is when you're the emotional equivalent of a teenager and haven't ever bothered to properly deal with the emotional trauma (whatever that may have been, real or imagined) that put you in that place to begin with. She strikes me as the type to have had a whole stack of self-diagnosed psych conditions listed in her bio on tumblr.