Does he want to spend the rest of his life trying to gain grounds with a woman obviously unwilling to respect his opinions? Does he want to forever live in conflict? Would he want to raise children when their mother, his supposed partner in everything, has such an attitude? If she already wants to shame him for his harmless interests, then imagine how things would get if genuine disagreements start.
This is not her one thing. Someone who thinks like this will find a problem with whatever else he likes. Would hebe happy if he had to constantly worry about her opinions? Like what if he wants to see a movie or listen to a song... or go to a restaurant or buy from a company that she finds "problematic" because it's the newest thing to hate according to Twitter? Would he be willing to live in constant worry over what she will think of every choice he makes?
That's what I would tell him. That he shouldn't make a "compromise" that's basically the woman ruling over him and making him feel bad about his hobbies and the things that make him have fun (that don't hurt anyone, of course).
I don't know him, but he is 100% worth more than wasting himself like that.
In every relationship there are times when you two disagree. But never settle for a person who makes you more miserable, anxious and unhappy than you were before them.
Does he want to spend the rest of his life trying to gain grounds with a woman obviously unwilling to respect his opinions? Does he want to forever live in conflict? Would he want to raise children when their mother, his supposed partner in everything, has such an attitude? If she already wants to shame him for his harmless interests, then imagine how things would get if genuine disagreements start.
This is not her one thing. Someone who thinks like this will find a problem with whatever else he likes. Would hebe happy if he had to constantly worry about her opinions? Like what if he wants to see a movie or listen to a song... or go to a restaurant or buy from a company that she finds "problematic" because it's the newest thing to hate according to Twitter? Would he be willing to live in constant worry over what she will think of every choice he makes?
That's what I would tell him. That he shouldn't make a "compromise" that's basically the woman ruling over him and making him feel bad about his hobbies and the things that make him have fun (that don't hurt anyone, of course).
I don't know him, but he is 100% worth more than wasting himself like that.
In every relationship there are times when you two disagree. But never settle for a person who makes you more miserable, anxious and unhappy than you were before them.