Pick-Up Artists do suggest using "negging", after all, and they get strong returns on their efforts.
The returns being the money that the sad sacks of crap who are their followers shovel into their pockets. Like with the rest of the self-help lot, what what folks apparently don't understand that, skills in general cannot necessarily be taught. That is assuming that they have skills to begin with. In my view, successful self-help propagators mostly have the skill of self-enrichment. Learn that from them instead, though not by manipulating a sucker out of his money.
The average man needs to approach approximately 40 women before one will reciprocate at even a basic level, if going semi-random (thanks OKCupid contact stats!). You approached ONE, good job, 39 to go. And it hurts just as much as you did, for every single one of them.
It only 'hurts' because those men assume that men and women are the same. They're not. A basic understanding of biology would solve a lot of problems for both sexes.
The returns being the money that the sad sacks of crap who are their followers shovel into their pockets. Like with the rest of the self-help lot, what what folks apparently don't understand that, skills in general cannot necessarily be taught. That is assuming that they have skills to begin with. In my view, successful self-help propagators mostly have the skill of self-enrichment. Learn that from them instead, though not by manipulating a sucker out of his money.
It only 'hurts' because those men assume that men and women are the same. They're not. A basic understanding of biology would solve a lot of problems for both sexes.