See, this is what I'm talking about.

I'm not saying it's advisable, but I don't think it's as impossible as many may believe.

Also, I disagree with your assessment that women don't love sex as much. I think that sexual activity is simply more of a behavior regulator among men than it is women. Men can absolutely manipulate sex as easily as women can, it's just that men are pre-disposed to saying yes on initial offering, and women are pre-disposed to saying no on initial offering.