A woman cannot understand masculinity and its complexities because that's not something they are given the instincts to grasp. The same way I will never understand their absurd emotional states regarding children.

Once it has gotten into their mind that being a man is inherently toxic, you cannot undo that idea. They need their entire perspective on life changed to see a whole different side of things.

Or you could be that manly man and lay the pipe so good she is filled with cognitive dissonance and picks the dick over her politics.