You'll care about the wealth when you are bankrupt from the alimony AND child support, and then the State is knocking on your door to arrest you for not paying them because you are in fact bankrupt. Meaning you lose the chance to see them while in prison and now you visitation rights are revoked because you are an unfit parent who got arrested.

These things don't just happen in a nutshell, its a massive rigged game.

That's completely assuming she is a decent and non-vindictive woman as well, which is a big IF after a divorce.