Sometimes the victim directly contributed to what happened (e.g. walking through the hood at 2am drunk and decked out in jewellery, getting into the car of a person you don't know, or inviting millions of inbred neanderthals with a violent extremism problem into your country). If you can't talk about that and just base your entire perception of reality off of "But I shouldn't have to!", the problem won't go away - it'll just hit you like a truck of peace because you live your entire life assuming that everything goes well at all times.
"Victim blaming" is a nonsensical term anyways.
Sometimes the victim directly contributed to what happened (e.g. walking through the hood at 2am drunk and decked out in jewellery, getting into the car of a person you don't know, or inviting millions of inbred neanderthals with a violent extremism problem into your country). If you can't talk about that and just base your entire perception of reality off of "But I shouldn't have to!", the problem won't go away - it'll just hit you like a truck of peace because you live your entire life assuming that everything goes well at all times.