Nick Kristoff -Here’s Why We Shouldn’t Demean Trump Voters
[T]he liberal impulse has been to demonize anyone at all sympathetic to Donald Trump as a racist and bigot. This has been politically foolish, for it’s difficult to win votes from people you’re ...
Our strategy has many problems, but I don't think "not ostracizing family members" is the cause of its lack of success.
If someone is insufferable, cut him off. If someone is dangerous, cut him off. Other than that, there is no harm in being an anchor of sanity.