The old manosphere was great for comparing notes on what was going on. But the old red pill sites are mostly gone and have been replaced by a great deal of astro turf. Lately, I have noticed people aren't very friendly in public anymore. Asked around to some of the locals and they have told me no one goes out. Have to search to find people.
Also, I was talking with a younger dude who spends his summers going up to Alaska to work. I have known guys who have done that but didn't realize there was an extensive network of guys who do it. From what I gather a good chunk of these guys don't have wives or girlfriends, most are in their twenties but not all. The guy in question is tall, good looking, a very hard worker and a very nice guy. He made it sound like he didn't expect to get a girlfriend anytime soon, and didn't really expect to meet one. I have also known military guys who basically just dropped out of society and traveled. Also nice dudes. And then there was all the gym bros who dropped out after the Tiktok gals started harassing people at the local gyms.
How many young guys have just dropped out of society? I mean, all the dudes I cited are fit, good looking dudes. Just gone. It's hard to tell with the red pill videos as a good chunk of those guys are salesman selling their product, but how bad is it really now? Especially post covid. How many men just dropped out altogether? I'm getting the impression from this anecdotal evidence that it's getting worse, as there is always guys who drop out... But the majority didn't used to be dudes in their prime who were fit and good looking.
I've completely given up/dropped out of society.
I work my job and do it well and get my raises and promotions, I'm not such a skeeze that I'm a burden.
But I haven't bothered dating in 7 years. At first it was a break from all the whores and degenerate brainless retard women that are infesting gen z/millennial spaces, and then after a year I realized I felt fine enough without the constant chase for poon and decided I wasn't going to pursue anymore. The time has passed and now I happen to be several years into the voluntary celibacy/separation from dating.
I can't say I'm extremely happy about it because I know the perfect state of man is to be married and raising beautiful children, but I'm too put off by the hordes of awful women. I can't bring myself to sift through the piles of trash.
I've always been autistic and introverted anyways, so staying to myself and keeping my head down comes naturally. I'm complacent with doing my few small hobbies, working, and sleeping. It's not thrilling or anything to write home about. But I prefer it to all the drama.
Yeah looks like a lot of us here share the same sentiment
Would like a nice, simple girl and raise a family with her. But with the way the world is - and deliberately so - I'd rather not get tangled up given all the risks and outright hate towards men in general.
Last few weeks I have been trying dating apps and speed dating, etc. partly to see what it's like and to get my friends to shut up, plus to project that image of myself as a normie to the wider society. And all I've been seeing so far are either: middle-aged lawyers, fat girls, ones with clear mental disorders. Most other decent girls are getting old and very picky with their standards so hard luck for them