I have a very good excuse for watching a Hollywood movie, I swear, pls no bully.
Anyway, regardless of the quality of the movie - a bit difficult to follow and somewhat romcommy (or romcommie according to some people here), it surprised me that there were no really overtly woke elements, and that woke was even mocked at some point.
Avoiding spoilers for something no one here is ever going to watch, the two woke-adjacent elements were a guy who appeared somewhat gay (other than that, no LGBTP crap), and a female character with surprising prowess in fights.
But also: even the 'good' female characters were presented as obsessive and self-centered and as the butt of jokes. And one of the bad female characters at one point cited "toxic masculinity" when she was caught and trying in vain to appeal to a fellow female to not side against her when she is clearly in the wrong.
So either movies are getting less woke or (more likely) this is a nice exception to the rule.
I enjoyed it. As you mentioned, there were two scenes where a woman beats up a man she has no business beating (one of which is much more egregious than the other), but neither one was presented as “yeah, girl power!” so it made me roll my eyes in more of a “maybe they should have made this scene work a little differently” way than an “ugh, feminism” way.