I'm going to take the time to share a theory I have been kicking around:
Kids need their dad's present for healthy development. There are many reasons why but one often overlooked reason is teasing. Teasing hellps children regulate their emotions by allowing a safe environment to experience and process negative emotions.
Husbands fill the same role for their wives. By regularly engaging in teasing (playfully, not cruelly), women are given space to feel negative, confrontational emotions without the mental or social drawbacks. They can be frustrated in a way that leads to happiness instead of letting it fester and blow up.
Obviously this is assuming a healthy relationship and a well intensioned husband. Teasing should not be a time to express actual criticism or address real issues.
Today, so many women live their lives without healthy male-influence. Either because that are single or because their husbands are afraid/unable to act masculine unapologetically.
I'm going to take the time to share a theory I have been kicking around:
Kids need their dad's present for healthy development. There are many reasons why but one often overlooked reason is teasing. Teasing hellps children regulate their emotions by allowing a safe environment to experience and process negative emotions.
Husbands fill the same role for their wives. By regularly engaging in teasing (playfully, not cruelly), women are given space to feel negative, confrontational emotions without the mental or social drawbacks. They can be frustrated in a way that leads to happiness instead of letting it fester and blow up.
Obviously this is assuming a healthy relationship and a well intensioned husband. Teasing should not be a time to express actual criticism or address real issues.
Today, so many women live their lives without healthy male-influence. Either because that are single or because their husbands are afraid/unable to act masculine unapologetically.
you're a retarded bitch. kill yourself.
Do you accept constructive criticism?