Yep, this is as simple as it gets. To go even simpler: if a woman starts dictating rules then you aren't gonna make it. If she wants to fuck you she will break any rule she enforces on any other man. She will follow the man she wants to fuck into an office lobby and drink the mud they call coffee as a first date and will brag about it to her friends.
It's good to internalize two things:
Stay humble -- even the best men get rules'd by the most middling of women
It's not your fault. You should try to become the man for whom the woman breaks rules, yes, but don't be hard on yourself if you are not.
Regarding rule 2, I did not have a male authority figure in my life until 4th grade. None of my friends in my neighborhood had fathers; all were raised by single mothers. None of us had a chance. It is not your fault.
Yeah, I don't think men should beat themselves up if they can't be alphafux. It's mostly beyond their control regardless of "red pill" grifters claiming otherwise. I just think men should have the self respect to refuse being betabux since as you said the relationship is dead before it begins in that case. Paying full price for Chad's discarded jizz rag just buys you resentment from that jizz rag.
I wholeheartedly agree, I'm not big on any of the "red pill" "influencers" but one thing one of them said is exactly that. If a woman wants to fuck you you she will agree to the simplest coffee date because she wants your time, which is the most finite resource any of us have. If she doesn't then move on and do not simp because she's just not that into you.
Yep, this is as simple as it gets. To go even simpler: if a woman starts dictating rules then you aren't gonna make it. If she wants to fuck you she will break any rule she enforces on any other man. She will follow the man she wants to fuck into an office lobby and drink the mud they call coffee as a first date and will brag about it to her friends.
It's good to internalize two things:
Regarding rule 2, I did not have a male authority figure in my life until 4th grade. None of my friends in my neighborhood had fathers; all were raised by single mothers. None of us had a chance. It is not your fault.
Yeah, I don't think men should beat themselves up if they can't be alphafux. It's mostly beyond their control regardless of "red pill" grifters claiming otherwise. I just think men should have the self respect to refuse being betabux since as you said the relationship is dead before it begins in that case. Paying full price for Chad's discarded jizz rag just buys you resentment from that jizz rag.
I wholeheartedly agree, I'm not big on any of the "red pill" "influencers" but one thing one of them said is exactly that. If a woman wants to fuck you you she will agree to the simplest coffee date because she wants your time, which is the most finite resource any of us have. If she doesn't then move on and do not simp because she's just not that into you.