Do not judge lest ye be judged? Frankly, I would like to be judged if I were so desperate to be in a relationship that I went as far as to endorse the very same culture of whoredom and desolation which the bible explicitly and repeatedly condemns as a bad outcome - I think that sounds like a pretty good metric to be judged by generally speaking. Why reward it? Why enable it? It's nothing short of cuckoldry on a spiritual level to lose the discernment that you are also "called upon as a Christian" to have.
Do not judge lest ye be judged? Frankly, I would like to be judged if I were so desperate to be in a relationship that I went as far as to endorse the very same culture of whoredom and desolation which the bible explicitly and repeatedly condemns as a bad outcome - I think that sounds like a pretty good metric to be judged by generally speaking. Why reward it? Why enable it? It's nothing short of cuckoldry on a spiritual level to lose the discernment that you are also "called upon as a Christian" to have.
Have some dignity.
The corollary to "Do not be judged" is "Be as wise as serpents, and as innocent as doves."
Jesus specifically commanded his disciples not to be naive.