Speaking from experience, junior high and high school is when sports go from maybe twice a week to almost every day. Some people want sports to dominate their lives, but a lot really don’t. It’s actually quite pathetic to be taking sports that seriously at that young age. Almost no one is going to play college level athletics, much less professional anything, and yet we’re making kids spend 30 hours a week on this shit just to play games with their friends.
What we need are casual rec leagues for kids who aren’t delusional about their athletics futures. As someone who played loads of sports when I was young and essentially quit when I hit high school, I can tell you that there are a lot of kids looking for a more balanced model.
On the flip side, the rigor of high school sports often seems to prepare them more for life than most anything else in high school. Discipline is good for people in general.
Why the fuck is this about girls at all? Pretty sure about half of boys become apathetic about joining proper teams as they start turning 14 too.
When they start becoming sullen teenagers they would rather spend their time on other less organized activities.
Speaking from experience, junior high and high school is when sports go from maybe twice a week to almost every day. Some people want sports to dominate their lives, but a lot really don’t. It’s actually quite pathetic to be taking sports that seriously at that young age. Almost no one is going to play college level athletics, much less professional anything, and yet we’re making kids spend 30 hours a week on this shit just to play games with their friends.
What we need are casual rec leagues for kids who aren’t delusional about their athletics futures. As someone who played loads of sports when I was young and essentially quit when I hit high school, I can tell you that there are a lot of kids looking for a more balanced model.
On the flip side, the rigor of high school sports often seems to prepare them more for life than most anything else in high school. Discipline is good for people in general.