In short: Where should I go to develop genuine connections with good people?
Why post this in KIA2? Well, I'm lost, maybe this is the wrong place for this discussion. I'm this mix of a Christian who likes games, VR, anime, etc., and I don't feel like I fit in anywhere.
If I go to Japan, even tho I'm fluent, I'll never be a native Japanese citizen, and where are the wise amongst their people? The older generation is so quick to condemn; the younger generation, picking up on western leftism it seems.
If I go to church, most Christians / people in general haven't actually developed the wisdom Christianity could provide them with, and may not have anything to do with JP/games/anime/VR.
If I go to VRChat, even in the relatively better communities I find narcissistic feminist women, furries, leftists, etc. are a dime a dozen. As socialites, there are a rare few who have gained some wisdom, but as with other communities I've seen, few and far between.
If I go take a dance class, I find older, conservative men and women, a younger narcissistic feminist woman (but hey, at least I can connect with those women on games and anime...), a younger Christian woman raised in a broken family, lacked self-esteem and got plastic surgery and breast implants because of it... Seems maybe some other homeschooled girls out there, too...? (Where's the younger men? Playing video games I guess? XD)
If I go to an anime or game convention, well now you have all this mask and vaccine stuff and it just doesn't seem worth it anymore.
So, it seems to me that the wise are few and far between wherever you go, and just about any place people gather and like games/anime/VR is captured by leftism. So where am I supposed to go?
I feel like I need to create my own community, because the community I'm looking for just doesn't exist. I've written a 3D engine from scratch in Vulkan for VR that can do online multiplayer, maybe I'll just try and setup a little community there+Discord+Twitter+Twitch...? I'm not sure I'm cut out to be a community leader, but if I don't do it, I'm not sure who will.
It's really difficult, I don't have any proper answers for you either which may come across as unhelpful but I'm just being honest. I had a hard time socialising with people my age before ( Zero interest in crap like pop music etc. that all the other mainstream normies listen to among other things ) and it's only got worse now as I refuse to be woke and go along with the herd and I'm the same in that I've gotten into the really autistic side of my work where I've learned two different programming languages.
I'm considering South America personally, going to see if it's at all possible to socialise there. The reason being especially with Argentina right now the population seems to have quite a Libertarian streak going on and I think that's been my problem. I'm in a country and especially RL I am fucking surrounded by leftists to the point even a lot of non-woke people online don't realise how left wing my area is.
I refuse to sit around though and end up like a feminist wine aunt, I'm going to save up money and do a holiday to some of these deep South American countries. Radical problems require radical solutions lol. I don't think I really want to reveal where I'm going to end up until I've potentially settled in a bit. The ideal scenario is being able to country hop between the UK, but the UK is getting that bad now I don't want to give any leftists the ability to doxx me and fuck with any potential legal processes as the pricks often do.
Also major plus point for me with South American countries, the climate won't kill me, very mild so that's nice. Will have to see if I'm allergic to these countries like the UK because I got tree pollen allergies.