Why shouldn't I? If a person has fucked a lot, it means their standards are low and their long-term loyalty is low, they're more likely to have STDs, and there are more exes for any future partner to have to measure up against. I know it may seem strange that I mentioned both low standards and measuring up against many past partners, but this is because of a difference in how those standards are applied. What I mean is that they will mentally be comparing their partner to an amalgamation that has all the things they liked about each of their exes. The barrier to get this person's attention is low (we know because they have many, many exes), but the requirement to hold their attention is that you always come out favorably against nostalgia for the best parts of dozens of other relationships and the intrigue and possibility of whatever other person their low standards has allowed them to notice.
We can argue about whether or not more partners is worse in women than men—I think it's probably slightly worse, but that a high body-count is a red flag on either sex—but it seems obvious that there are strong reasons to prefer a partner with fewer past relationships.
Why shouldn't I? If a person has fucked a lot, it means their standards are low and their long-term loyalty is low, they're more likely to have STDs, and there are more exes for any future partner to have to measure up against. I know it may seem strange that I mentioned both low standards and measuring up against many past partners, but this is because of a difference in how those standards are applied. What I mean is that they will mentally be comparing their partner to an amalgamation that has all the things they liked about each of their exes. The barrier to get this person's attention is low (we know because they have many, many exes), but the requirement to hold their attention is that you always come out favorably against nostalgia for the best parts of dozens of other relationships and the intrigue and possibility of whatever other person their low standards has allowed them to notice.
We can argue about whether or not more partners is worse in women than men—I think it's probably slightly worse, but that a high body-count is a red flag on either sex—but it seems obvious that there are strong reasons to prefer a partner with fewer past relationships.
Not in the slightest? If a persons fucked a lot, they fucked a lot. Doesn't go further than that. Maybe of you were fucked once, you'd get it
"Can't refute any of his points, better imply he's a virgin." I guess you must be one of those high body count gals?