A while ago it was brought up the joyful circumstances of numerous commentors here being married or in some other form of relationship. Some even had kids.
Question for you all, how hard is it nowadays to be in one (relationship), or get in one? The red pill media has, over the years, become very black pilled and sensationalist on the subject. Granted, with ever increasing feminism and a decrease in tolerance for male behavior I have noticed it getting a lot harder out there... but ia it anywhere near as bad as they say?
While we are at it, what the hell does everyone do for fun in the real world? Prices have gone sky high in America, especially rent and housing, and over the years I have noticed less and less people go out, especially those in their 20s and 30s. I like to hike and explore so sitting at home doing nothing but play video games, read and watch tv drivers me nuts after a while. Granted, society seems less friendly and more shut in nowadays anyways. Still, there must be some clubs or whatever that people do for fun, even if not as frequently as ye olden times.
It is bad with many factors coming together to make the situation horrible. I mean it was hard then (20 years ago) but it seems impossible now. Here are some problems that I didn’t have to deal with:
Online dating was in its infancy & largely looked down upon for only the most desperate.
Cost of living was way lower so the cost of going out was negligible.
Women were still largely traditional as in they aren’t super liberals complaining where all the good men went.
Women’s expectations weren’t retarded like it is now. I mean they were creeping up sure, but the whole 666 (feet, figures, inches) was NOT standard.
Starting a new life was easier and owning property was doable.
Most importantly men & women were actively seeking each other out.
Bullshit like “monkey branching” would have easily been considered cheating.
Being a single mom was looked down upon. Especially with interracial kids.
White men were largely not under attack by society, so there was no perception of danger or prejudice.
Pre-social media; you had to have social chops. The more social you were the better off you be.
Likewise, introverts had to drag their asses out too to socialize too. This was better for everyone.