A while ago it was brought up the joyful circumstances of numerous commentors here being married or in some other form of relationship. Some even had kids.
Question for you all, how hard is it nowadays to be in one (relationship), or get in one? The red pill media has, over the years, become very black pilled and sensationalist on the subject. Granted, with ever increasing feminism and a decrease in tolerance for male behavior I have noticed it getting a lot harder out there... but ia it anywhere near as bad as they say?
While we are at it, what the hell does everyone do for fun in the real world? Prices have gone sky high in America, especially rent and housing, and over the years I have noticed less and less people go out, especially those in their 20s and 30s. I like to hike and explore so sitting at home doing nothing but play video games, read and watch tv drivers me nuts after a while. Granted, society seems less friendly and more shut in nowadays anyways. Still, there must be some clubs or whatever that people do for fun, even if not as frequently as ye olden times.
If you want any sort of 'natural' relationship, you need to be in a social setting that exposes you to single women.
This isn't an automatic guarantee that anything'll happen, but it does mean that it gives you experience. Social skills are, at the end of the day, skills, and they require practice.
The problem is that such an organic avenue is fucking impossible to find. So you have to go afield and outside your comfort zones. Which can be a good thing from time to time, but depending on where you live, when 'socializing with other men and women that are also single in a setting that has firm rules so everyone knows what to do' requires you traveling atleast 50 miles one way, uh... this causes problems.
All my hobbies are either loner stuff, gaming, or complete sausage fests(or the only women there are there because of thier husbands/dad/boyfriend). I've considered taking up dancing, but no local classes are available on my free afternoons. Sad.