There is no doubt in my mind she has some narcissistic sexual disorder if the mind - maybe not a debilitating one (most aren’t) but one that can be dangerous when combined with incredible power, like she has as the face and leader of a pop culture business machine. These things tend to show differently in men and women: in men it tends to be a look-at-me showiness about the women you bed, while in women it’s more about look at how sexy I am. Just look up any interview Lizzo has done and she is very singleminded in that way - yeah her art is about body positivity in a general, inspirational sense but her real personality is better summed up in the very famous “I’m the new beauty standard” quote. There is a HUGE difference between “love yourself no matter what you look like!” and “yo, you KNOW you wanna fuck me, cheeeyah!” and Lizzo is sick with the latter. And if she wasn’t rich famous and powerful, probably no one, or very few people would ever be hurt by her disorder. But she is, and so she’s hurt a lot of people just because she (a) can, and (b) loves it. It’s the only logical explanation for why she gets a pass as a fatass but her dancers get fired for being too fat: “I’m hot and you’re not (even though we are the same)” — a sexuality-centered narcissistic disorder. And I’d be saying this whether she was a man or a woman: I hope this scandal fucking ends her. She is sick and twisted and some of us have known this for a while even as her fans were blinded by the public face she showed, it’s been more than obvious. I hope this kills her career, permanently.
There is no doubt in my mind she has some narcissistic sexual disorder if the mind - maybe not a debilitating one (most aren’t) but one that can be dangerous when combined with incredible power, like she has as the face and leader of a pop culture business machine. These things tend to show differently in men and women: in men it tends to be a look-at-me showiness about the women you bed, while in women it’s more about look at how sexy I am. Just look up any interview Lizzo has done and she is very singleminded in that way - yeah her art is about body positivity in a general, inspirational sense but her real personality is better summed up in the very famous “I’m the new beauty standard” quote. There is a HUGE difference between “love yourself no matter what you look like!” and “yo, you KNOW you wanna fuck me, cheeeyah!” and Lizzo is sick with the latter. And if she wasn’t rich famous and powerful, probably no one, or very few people would ever be hurt by her disorder. But she is, and so she’s hurt a lot of people just because she (a) can, and (b) loves it. It’s the only logical explanation for why she gets a pass as a fatass but her dancers get fired for being too fat: “I’m hot and you’re not (even though we are the same)” — a sexuality-centered narcissistic disorder. And I’d be saying this whether she was a man or a woman: I hope this scandal fucking ends her. She is sick and twisted and some of us have known this for a while even as her fans were blinded by the public face she showed, it’s been more than obvious. I hope this kills her career, permanently.