Not to mention, marriages where the woman out-earns the man tend to be unstable. If she's making bank, that's all the more pressure for the husband to be making more than her. I know a lot of these guys have fantasies of a dommy-mommy who will take care of all their needs, sexual and otherwise. But very few women have the slightest interest in acting in that sort of role. In fact, few things are a bigger turnoff for most women.