write it or draw it but don't star in it

Well two of those take actual creative talent, constant practice, and overall skill to really get attention while the third requires a heartbeat and a willingness to debase one's self.

That last part is important, because for most women tainting themselves is the draw. Women love being degraded and made to feel worthless, which porn does handily. They just aren't used to dealing with the consequences of their actions.