I'm going to get really controversial here, but I do think that the majority of those white women actually have trauma. Why? Because sexual promiscuity is traumatic to women. That's one of the reasons that it has been discouraged and punished in virtually every civilized society. These women are mentally and spiritually broken, and they don't even know why.

Is it their own fault for getting into this situation? Yes, to an extent. They certainly made those choices. But society is also at fault. By embracing the lies of "sex positive" feminism, that sex is consequence-free as long as you don't get pregnant or get a disease, society has given women free-reign to give into their baser desires. It's only when they're single and depressed, with waning fertility, do they understand that something went wrong in their lives. They've been living in a way that is distinctly unnatural, and are facing the consequences while society tells them that everything's fine, and if it's not, it's the patriarchy's fault. Wish you'd settled down and had kids? Sound like you have a case of internalized misogyny! Go to re-education and take these antidepressants.

That doesn't mean that these women aren't responsible for their actions; but something needs to change on a broader level.