Rollo Tomassi and Chateau Heartiste are the big manosphere guys I know about. They both definitely know their shit. I haven't seen much of Rian Stone so I will check him out.

I feel the same as you when it comes to women just with some different hobbies. I still exercise to stay healthy but I do it as self maintenance not for enjoyment.

I rather read an interesting book, watch an anime or play a video game then jump through so many hoops to deal with a basic bitch.