Yes. Basically love-near-first sight. Followed up by common interests. Followed up by him filling a narrative role of a rescuer, and allowing her to develop agency away from an abusive and shitty environment.
There is no point in being an ATM for a couple years to be divorce raped later. I hope that's not the case for your friends.
In this case, and there are many cases like this, neither party would even consider breaking up. I might be an anti-theist, but Michael Knowles is correct that you have to be with a woman who isn't going to divorce. Now, I'm not going to say "marry a catholic", I'm saying that you have to fulfill a woman's metaphysical needs to the point that she would have no sane reason to divorce you. Yes, marry older, uglier, poorer women who see you as a kind of hero/night-in-shining-armor.
And yeah, those women exist, there's plenty of them.
Yes. Basically love-near-first sight. Followed up by common interests. Followed up by him filling a narrative role of a rescuer, and allowing her to develop agency away from an abusive and shitty environment.
In this case, and there are many cases like this, neither party would even consider breaking up. I might be an anti-theist, but Michael Knowles is correct that you have to be with a woman who isn't going to divorce. Now, I'm not going to say "marry a catholic", I'm saying that you have to fulfill a woman's metaphysical needs to the point that she would have no sane reason to divorce you. Yes, marry older, uglier, poorer women who see you as a kind of hero/night-in-shining-armor.
And yeah, those women exist, there's plenty of them.