of what? this c/ community? or, the whole website?

The KiA2 subreddit.

which is why i would opt for a middle ground that doesn't involve taking away rights and privileges away from people just because they're gay.

That would be ideal, I'm just not sure that it is feasible, or that it would solve the issues. The 'slippery slope' alleged fallacy was mocked all the way to the moon, and yet it's the undefeated champion. I myself mocked the religious right for their dire predictions, but I had no idea that they would, if anything, undersell the bad consequences that were to follow.

i think it means. you don't have a sexual attraction to someone, but your emotionally attracted to them... so basically A sexual.

No, that's another BS label - demisexual I think they call it.