I mean, the problem with snooping on your kid is they are eventually going to eventually figure out what's going on. When (not if, when) they do, you can expect the problem is only going to get worse. If your child doesn't feel like they can come to you with a problem, the issue is with you. You child should be aware that they can come to you with any problem they are have and, in response, you don't act like a fucking psychopath when they do.
I mean, the problem with snooping on your kid is they are eventually going to eventually figure out what's going on. When (not if, when) they do, you can expect the problem is only going to get worse. If your child doesn't feel like they can come to you with a problem, the issue is with you. You child should be aware that they can come to you with any problem they are have and, in response, you don't act like a fucking psychopath when they do.
I fully expect to catch shit for this comment.
And not the groomer who's telling them that their parents won't understand them so it's better to keep it a secret.