I'll never forget this. It was a democrat, of all people, who corrected me when, as a young anti-church liberal I complained about all the priests molesting children. Never forget what he said to me:

"The church doesn't have a pedophile problem, it has a gay priest problem." Dude had been close friends with gay people his whole life, he saw the brutal truth up front and bleak. He knew what I was too naive at the time to see.