It always comes down to how many people are willing and able to back up a claim using violence. In a functioning society, everyone has reasonably similar standards for what makes violent enforcement of some decision or agreement acceptable. When there is substantial disagreement on the standards, the guaranteed result is widespread violence.

Right now, that widespread violence is done mostly by police officers enforcing judges' decisions. If people want to change what gets enforced, they need to have tactical discussions about how to change the composition and size of the enforcing population. This is the reason the Progressives have remade the US military by replacing the upper brass with their lackies, and used the Defund the Police movement to cut down the size of local law enforcement, to replace them with centrally controlled federal enforcers. Their tactics have been successful. We need to figure out how to respond even more successfully.