Dont even have to watch these videos, just look at the comments on them ( I recommend using ad block to not give these people any ad revenue profits, even if its a few cents): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rlwnlb72rLo
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pman_LN8sVE
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZfCzdZZtP5g
And the thing that pisses me off is that anime is actually such a diverse medium, that there are literally mountainloads of anime that dont sexualize women. There is literally genres like shoujo and manhwa geared towards female audiences, and yet these people go into shounen (a genre meant for teenage boys), and the complain that the women are sexualized.
https://ibb.co/qWMmYMs https://ibb.co/8zRf8sQ https://ibb.co/x2GcyNH
And when you point out that there are genres that gear towards women as well, its still not enough for them.
Related to the post u/Theman2008 made earlier today
While I don't disagree with the point you are making (and he is often silly), Yaoi gets into some wierd shit that is actually well more disturbing (like teaching teen girls the anus is self lubricating). And its Fujo audience is far more detached from reality, and much more likely to try and force that onto people.
A few from my high school would go around bullying and gaslighting some more weak willed men into thinking they were gay, just to set them up with other guys to get off on it. Often times their own boyfriends were the victims of this, and I doubt those guys ever really emotionally recovered from that.
Its very much a case where the "both sides do it!" is technically true, but the reality is they are nowhere near the same outside of the premise.