Is this what they're teaching is okay over at University of California, Irvine?

It just seems like a complaint that people like thing and she does not like thing so it must be talked about negatively.

I personally don't watch anime anymore, but the ones I did watch had none of what she's talking about.

Unless she wants to reach across the chasm gap from hypersexualized woman to attractive woman appearing on screen. Which in of itself is an admission that she doesn't like those either.