Remember, reality is racist just like telling someone not to partake in certain activities which can and will put them at risk.

"Asking for it" or being dressed a certain way will factor into things in a similar manner of "Don't be a complete fucktard and climb into a lion enclosure" however a combination of hybristophilia and rom-com/YA trash means women have this expectation of "saving" broken men and that is can only turn out well for her. Not that it always turns out well for the man in those stories, but then it's brain porn for women so that's not the point.

tl;dr I CAN FIX HIM! /gets stabbed