Yeah, I definitely see the appeal of staying home while the spouse does all the hard work. But as you found out the arrangement never works with a female breadwinner. In some cases dudes will trans themselves and try to get into a homosexual relationship in an attempt to be a house wife. Of course that doesn't work because straight men aren't into dudes and gay men aren't into troomer pill induced erectile dysfunction or rotting crotch wounds that stink of literal shit.