The purpose of debate is the search for truth. It requires both parties be honest, civil, logical, and prioritize truth above all else. Even if one or both sides are proven wrong, they still win because they all gain a better understanding of truth. Without good debate, bad debate occurs, which inflames the tensions between the disagreeing parties. Good debate is the first and best option to resolving conflict between disagreeing parties. The second method for solving this is to isolate the disagreeing parties, either physically, or by ignoring the problems to pursue mutual goals. The third option is violence. This often results after good debate and isolation has been made impossible.

The reason for why good debate is so crucial, is because it's an acknowledgment of our own humanity, that we're mortal, finite, and imperfect, with free will. We can't know everything. Thus, when someone doesn't partake in good debate, they're denying the purpose of it, and their own humanity. They're proclaiming that they're not mortal, finite, and imperfect, and instead suggesting that they know everything, that they're God.

Since you're incapable of having good debate, you don't prioritize truth, you deny your own humanity, and proclaim yourself to be God, and since you don't want to leave other people be, you believe that this should be solved with violence. I don't want that, I'd rather solve it with good debate or isolation, where people are free to succeed or fail based on their own merit. Since you don't believe in merit, you're an enemy of that too.

Downvote this too liar, and prove how weak you are. You're antithetical to truth.