As one of our resident weebs here I recommend you keep going in the fashion you described, seeking out what you like and avoiding what you don't.

Dag certainly has a point in that once the stuff hits western audiences, troons troon it up. But you are also correct in that most of the "goofy/ecchi" stuff originates from Japanese culture. It's not simply a product of western wokeness. This YT comment is a prime example - they're going for another GG style infiltration.

Edit: r/animesuggest is a cut above most places in terms of keeping it about recommendations rather than "ships," "waifus," erotic fanfics, etc...