I decided to try out tinder and discovered the site is absolute garbage. There are no real browsing options, interest selection is limited, there are fucking trannies who failed to properly disclose their status so they show up where they shouldn't, and it prohibits you from manually disclosing your location by forcing you to use location services.
Edit: Was likely banned for saying in the account description I hate regressive leftists and muslims, and also for saying I hate gender identity. Another possibility was that defending lolicon got me wrongfully banned for pro-pedo speech.
You def sound higher on the scale for physical attractiveness and even overall attractiveness as a guy scale than me. I've let my body go here a little the last two years. I just haven't got enough benefit from the effort I put in but I think at my peak, it sounds like I wouldn't be close to you. I've never been buff but I've had a decent physique. I'm smaller as a guy though. My limbs and bones are small so I never come off "big". I think my best weight has been 165 pounds and 5'10". Size 30 waist. I'm sitting at about a 31 waist now and probably around same weight. My size has never really been an attractor like for you.
I wish I could have warned you about the master's degree thing. Women going to school is a huge problem for failing relationships. My longest relationship was great until she decided to go back to school for law. Then it all fell apart. I see this theme again and again. Women going to school is a huge red flag for a relationship. These days I prefer women without post secondary and with 0 plans to ever go back to school. I find education/career in women is a huge detractor for relationships.
I've mostly lived in the mid-west areas. It's more "conservative" but that comes with its own share of problems. I'm currently living in a town of 30,000 people. I'm not exaggerating but almost every 20yo girl who wants marriage is already married or engaged to her HS sweetheart. If she's in her 20s-30s and single it's because she has someone else's kids. I moved her for significantly more money but I was hoping maybe there would be some decent small town girls. I underestimated how impossible it is for someone who wasn't born and raised in the community to meet single girls here though. I'll probably be here a couple years then move to I think my 9th city I will have lived in. Still, while big cities have more available single women, it doesn't solve the problem of big cities. Most of the women want equal 50/50 relationships where they're working 9-5 jobs and all that stuff. You sound like perhaps you haven't quite come to the conclusion that I have regarding that. Careers shape women's personalities and not in a good way. What may have seemed like a good quality girl when she was young and in school or 1-2 years out of school can quickly turn into those 30yo monstrosities you so know exist and career is often how that happens to women. The more career ambitious the woman, the worse her personality tends to develop. The fact major corporations are rolling the red carpet out for anyone with a vagina is a huge ego boost to women but these women are actually underserving of the roles which puts a strain on relationships because women get an inflated sense of their competence and intelligence which leads to conflict in relationships if they want everything 50/50 and don't listen to the men in the relationships.
Smaller towns at least still aren't quite dominated by the same corps that dominate big cities so there's less of the modern affirmative action diversity and inclusion bullshit so women aren't entirely propped up with inflated egos yet but then the counterpoint is unless you were fucking her in high school, she's already going to be married or used up with a kid by the time she blips on your radar.
For me, it just seems like a hopeless situation. My current strategy is just save some money and then go to Costa Rica in 10 years. Buy a bunch of hookers and blow and hope I die of a heart attack before I run out of money.
Haha. I know a lot of guys that had trouble here that clean up in Central and South America and the Ukraine. One guy that was like a low 4 here got with a 9-10 in the Ukraine. He’s legit ugly and I think he’s dumb and annoying and he’s not rich but maybe by their standards he’s a god. Met a friend of his not long ago that does the same thing, and he’s maybe 1 point higher than him but he’s also an ugly tweaky fuck up. Sometimes you can meet girls out there that look like super models and are with some family selling goats or something. It is easier to get girls abroad, or do what I often do and get the broads from abroad here. If you’re from America you resemble things they see in movies and talk like ‘people from the movies’.
For you a new location probably would be the best idea. I’ve dated girls of most colors and sizes but Asian girls like white guys and it’s easy to out compete Asian guys out here since most are scrawny techie types, so I’m in an advantageous position. I know my market. Once one of them gets over 5’ 8” her dating pool is basically me, and she feels like she’s dating Captain America so she’s happy too. For other races it’s not much different since if they’re more conservative and come to the most leftist place on the planet, there aren’t that many buffer guys. Based on your given stats I’m bigger than you are but I’ve been not much bigger than you are and still did what I do just fine and maybe even better. People tend to assume I weigh a lot more than I do.
Girls I’ve dated vary, but most are STEM types that got some job that resembles accountant, or nurse types. A lot of them like the idea of working but since it’s rough here for many, they mostly want to be able to check out of that and have the option to only work if they want to. One was crazy rich and actually wanted me to be the stay at home dad, and I regret turning that down. Even had a lawyer that wanted to check out and make babies since she hated it.