Personally I think it all comes down to how insecure our boys are, they are simply too afraid to even talk to girls never mind kiss a girl, which is something that is likely the cause of modernism.

It's not insecurity, it's risk mitigation.

Why would you talk to someone who will micro-analyse everything you say to find something they can use against you, or pretend to be nice so they can ruin you with a rape allegation?

It pains me to say it, but we're going to have to extend an undeserved olive branch to our "better halves" one day, just for the sake of humanity.