Also there isn't much need to care about the distiction between offending pedos & non-offending pedos.

Their goal though is clear.

It's another attempt to police language to worm in their real agenda. Same happened with "racism" and wanting to shift to only mean "systemic racism".
It's a very deliberate act to normalize the thought of pedophilia.

Also keep in mind who this is coming from. You don't know my sexuality, I don't know your sexuality, because we both don't define ourselves via our sexuality. Thus we don't need to run around proclaiming who/what we are attracted to.
But they are different. They run around and have to tell everyone what they want to fuck and what they think they are. Or whatever one of the thousand genders they are.
Pedophilia fits in quite well there. "I'm pedo, but I don't act on it! LOOK AT ME! WORSHIP ME!" is their goal.