What? No. We want strong leaders and providers who also display gentleness. A gentle leader is evidence of a reliable father. There are so few of such men, so we take strong leader as evidence of the fact that he can potentially be a good provider and we hope our gentleness can whether whatever gentleness he's lacking because we're not really overwhelmed with options, here. We're also competing with porn and THOTS, so what stragglers are left are usually the ones with the worst masculine qualities.

Let's get real...strong men don't want weak women, either. You want a woman who can manage the backbreaking work of a home, children, her fitness, his health and possibly a job if he's in dire straights...all with the strength to smile at the end of it. That comes from strong, disciplined women and such women don't abide being treated like property. We abide being granted respect and love as we deserve.