Are there any lists that have been compiled of decent alternatives? I know about Bongino's payment processor, but I'm not sure it looks super-robust or well thought out.
Also, can Cloudflare be trusted? They seem to be much more committed to free speech than everyone else, but there are some worrying signs. My site shouldn't be super-controversial, but I certainly don't trust it with Stripe or DO these days.
No problem :) Just remember, no matter which provider you choose, do not forget so set up regular backups like a good boy. No system is safe from hardware failure, or fire (search "OVH Strasbourg fire" for more info)