I agree for the most part, but many people like you (no offense) unfortunately still believe we can have legalized gay marriage and avoid all the stuff that naturally follows. This just isn't the case.

Heterosexual marriage in one form or another has existed since the beginning of human history. It's purpose is abundantly clear. In contrast, gay marriage was never a thing except in a few very rare cases and has no purpose. Even so, in 2015 we decided that feelings are more important than reality and decided to legalize gay marriage on the basis that it's part of the "right to freedom of expression". This opened the floodgates that led us to today. No longer did reality matter when emotion, feeling and personal expression were sufficient, and thus society subsequently fell into the mass delusion that we're currently experiencing.