The Women Who are involuntary Celibates
(www.theguardian.com)
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Eh, there's a few things going on here. There's women who can't get sex and women who can't get relationships (and to have sex within) and some of it is due to the current culture, a lot due to faults of their own. I have no sympathy for males or females being degenerates trying to have casual sex. I have some for people who can't find relationships, i.e. marriage. This is both sexes fault, PC culture has made men more feminine, women more masculine, this is a mismatch that makes neither happy. They also don't know how to interact anymore, meaning less chance to connect. Men and women are different on average, different libidos, men's usually higher, women wanting more of an emotional connection. So each sex's incels look a bit different, though men want connection too, and women sex. She even says: Caitlin points out, not all sex is enjoyable. “Generally, men who aren’t in a relationship with you don’t make it a pleasurable experience,”. So even if you truly believe all women can get sex anytime they want, there's little chance of orgasm, unlike for men where it's generally guaranteed. Plenty of women in committed couples don't have them, let alone in casual sex. Takes more work from females to get the same pleasure. Men tend to value looks/youth (studies have repeatedly shown this), while women value status more, but also looks. Men can work hard in various ways and still get women, even if golddiggers, not so with women. No, even not being overweight and wearing make-up will make all women pretty, certainly not to match the porn expectations of most of these incels. Porn is a big thing here, creates unrealistic expectations, also changes the way men think towards women, and it's not positive and has societal effects. Also bad for their health, only making these men's condition worse, and adding to being more repellent to women (when surveyed women really, really wish their significant others would stop looking at the stuff). Another thing to note, the number of virgins is on the rise but the number of female virgins has always been higher. the number of male ones increased at a higher rate, but again, still lower than females. So, more celibate women out there. Again, I get that male libido is higher, so it probably sucks a bit more. But if they would all stop chasing things they shouldn't, like casual sex, they would be happier. Keep after sin and it will consume you. Women also aren't sleeping around the way incels and redpill types seem to think, the average female has like 2-3 partners, average male 4-6, 4 I think if a college grad. More of that unhealthy porn perspective. It's sad that neither gender can see the other's side, when they both just want connection in the end. As for some of those older women, well, they spent too much time in school, don't want to do much if any of the traditional stuff and have priced themselves out of the market. That's a different problem from the younger femcels who probably are overweight, have mental illnesses (that's about 50% of Liberal women at this point, probably higher for this segment), are sort of plain jane or whatever and can't get a "decent" guy (i.e. not 6"2, one who will make sex pleasurable). I guess I have some sympathy for these people, loneliness is sad. But then again, degenerates, they'll either learn their lesson or not. The women who thought they could have it all and are approaching menopause, probably not. I hate how these people keep hyperbolically calling any male group "terrorists" or "misogynists". Those words are losing all sense of meaning, which is part of their intent. Meanwhile a bunch of immigrants are running around F-ing up the West, and though worthy of the term, aren't labelled as such. Bright side though, they rape a ton, might solve some of these deluded people's problems and give them a whole new set.