In regards to the regressive left bitching about "kinkshaming", these retards love to defend extra marital relations and dangerous and extremely gross fetishes such as scat, soiling, ABDL, and pozing, which are all associated with bad sanitation and spreading dangerous/incurable diseases, but they will slander you if you are into anything they find offensive like anorexia fetishism, rape pornography, Nazi uniform fetishism, Gor type stuff, etc.
As for Nazi uniform fetishism, it was popular in the furry community until the regressive left started ganging influence in the major sites, and I did not mention lolicon/shotacon/cub porn because I have seen regressive leftists who both like and hate it and have not noticed any infighting related to it.
The regressive left also find Autogynephilia offensive because they literally do not belive in it due to the term's origins, and have therefore ruled it a violation of their extremist ideology. They are also known to bash non dysphoric crossdressers.
A fun game to play is to tell them you are in a polygamous relationship, and then specify a mono-poly relationship. That's something the woke fucking love and you can see the 1girl/4guy relationship all over media.
Then drop the bomb that the guy is the poly one, and you actually just have a harem. Then you get to watch them explode in a sputtering mess of backpedal and buzzwords while trying to not backstep into their own "anti-kink" landmines.
Its a great moment where you get to watch the horseshoe dawn on them that they've gone so far into Progressive Relationships they ended up back in the "oppressive, regressive" territory of women as objects/trophies/collections.