I don't think you get the rules here.

By "someone," he means "monogamous cissexual heteronormative people with Judeo-Christian-like morals."

Not only is offending them acceptable, it is desired, because they are the oppressors, and their values must be destroyed.

However, offending a "marginalized" identity is absolutely forbidden. In fact, it's violence to do so.

This is what "inclusion" means here. Silencing the un-Woke, and amplifying the Woke.