We lack the in-group bias women have, and then you have the groups who just screw around wantonly, the ones who drop-off and don't care what other men are doing, the ones who already have their relationship/marriage/family so don't care what happens to everyone else...
Sad to think about because all of the crap happening with dating and relationships has happened, partly because women have gone off the rails for various womens, but partly too because men enable the women and play into the same things making the problem of family formation worse. Imagine how things would change if men stopped thirsting and simping for women, actually had some self-respect, and held women to expectations and higher standards.
Would be great but that'll never happen. And failing that, well you'd have a lot of vectors you'd need to attack the problem from and there's too many parties benefiting from short-term pleasure to want to do anything about that. And meanwhile the children of today suffer and grow up to make the problem that much worse in the next generation, and the next, and the next.
Men should reject women who want careers over children. It requires men to be less desperate though.
We lack the in-group bias women have, and then you have the groups who just screw around wantonly, the ones who drop-off and don't care what other men are doing, the ones who already have their relationship/marriage/family so don't care what happens to everyone else...
Sad to think about because all of the crap happening with dating and relationships has happened, partly because women have gone off the rails for various womens, but partly too because men enable the women and play into the same things making the problem of family formation worse. Imagine how things would change if men stopped thirsting and simping for women, actually had some self-respect, and held women to expectations and higher standards.
Would be great but that'll never happen. And failing that, well you'd have a lot of vectors you'd need to attack the problem from and there's too many parties benefiting from short-term pleasure to want to do anything about that. And meanwhile the children of today suffer and grow up to make the problem that much worse in the next generation, and the next, and the next.
It will happen for me. I’m too disgusted by modern culture and what it has done to us to do otherwise.
I acknowledge that I can’t control anything though. I just have to wait and see what God has in store for me.