They are conflating female hypergamy with lesbianism. If you:

• only desire high status males, such as celebrities and fictional depictions

• only enjoy hanging out with beta orbiters so long as they don't hit on you

• get bored engaging in intimacy with the same low status man over and over again

You aren't a lesbian. You're a woman living in a society that no longer restrains your worst hypergamic impulses, and you've reflexively reframed everything because your solipsism won't permit you to view yourself as anything but perfect.