Male victims will experience the same feelings of guilt, shame, low self-esteem, anger and other more serious psychological disorders that their female counterparts do. This has been made pretty clear through psychological observation and literature. They will have the same problems with being able to trust, set boundaries with others in the future and the ability to participate in adult relationships in the future.
Again, you're looking back at it as an adult and making a judgment based on who you are now. Chances are you would be affected, whether you believe so or not. Presenting anecdotal personal experiences as representative of everyone doesn't change that we've seen such things have a real impact on young dudes.
I can't help but feel like a lot of your viewpoint is based solely off of stereotypes.
You also seem stuck on the idea of Asa Akira and yourself. Cool, you have a crush on her, I get it. That doesn't mean that ever single case that happens is with some pornhub model chick. We're also not talking about you exclusively. Most women who assault younger boys are likely not as attractive. But because the behavior is normalized, they all feel comfortable with acting on such predatory behavior.
Furthermore, as much as you want to remove those "negative consequences" to make your point, you're simply not able to. They're intrinsically entwined and one cannot happen without the other — much like how even adults are affected by STD's, pregnancy, financial burdens, commitment issues, etc.
We'll have to agree to disagree.