Try breaking through the shell of someone who buys into at least part of what's popular in the silicon valley worldview - then it's compounded by a general belief that the leftist worldview is part of the Inevitable Arc of History and you should just get with the program, bigot.

..because all the stats they see prove their point, all the people agree with them, blablabla.. nevermind that most social media has had thorough stifling of dissent and ideological purges. Ugh.

Props to you for your patience.