Did she tell him you're welcome? i understand though, you have a dream, someone tells you know and that helps motivate you. Happens all the time with good men too, though it's never the only factor. It's nice to tell someone "suck it" I guess, down the line, if you're into that sort of revenge. But when you use it to virtue signal it does seem pathetic, like you only did it to spite men or something. Have fun in one of the many fields men engineered and are doing better than you in. Please don't get in the way of them working.